Men Are Not Polygamous By Nature

For a very long time, both men and women have been carrying the idea that all men are polygamy by nature, that a man must cheat or can't be faithful to one woman.

This fallacy is wrong absolutely, I know a lot of men are not faithful but people should not use the bad behavior of a certain population of men to discredit all men. 

By this conclusion especially by women, give or validate men who aren't faithful or men who go around sleeping with Anything under the skate.

When women decide based on this assumption of being polygamous, it gives men who aren't faithful the opportunity to use it as an excuse to cheat.

All men aren't the same, but you can't expect a man who has never been used to being faithful in his previous relationship or marriage to be faithful, no Nah that can't happen except if he wants to and asks for help (therapy).

Being a Faithful boyfriend, partner or husband is a habit, just like lying. The men who made women arrive at such conclusions are the same as the other faithful men the only difference is ;

Faithful men genuinely love 

Unfaithful men don't

Faithful men are honest 

Unfaithful men must tell lies to cover their track.

Faithful men do understand and listen to their partner when their partner say they are hurt 🤕 by their behavior and they stop such behavior. 

Unfaithful men only hear what their partners vent out their frustration about how their behavior hurts,  they don't understand, till their partner says it over, that when they " get it " that she has been serious all this while and  about how she is hurt. 

Faithful men are disciplined

Unfaithful men are not 

Faithful men run from sex_ual temptation

Unfaithful men Create the possibility for sex_ual temptation.

Faithful men has Empathy, and care about your emotion and the impact of their action and decision on you.

Unfaithful men don't care.

Faithful men are very transparent, have nothing to hide, their partner knows their phone password, and No protocol.

Unfaithful men have every reason to hide, lock their phones, and many protocols " call me before coming".

Faithful men do have the opportunity to cheat but they try as much as they can to avoid it.

Unfaithful men create the opportunity and utilize it.

Faithful men are sex_ually disciplined

Unfaithful men are not 

Faithful men may fall into s_exual temptation and cheat during the period he is having a dispute or issue with their girlfriend or wife but will find a way to confess and beg for forgiveness because if they do not disclose the act they will become unfaithful.

Unfaithful men create the avenue to cheat and they only confess after they are caught (women take note).

It is a man's choice to be faithful or unfaithful but note that most of these unfaithful men were faithful men but were spoiled by their past lovers, some fathers model that habit to them directly by how they watch their dad cheat on their mum and some were influenced by friends and our society.

The solution to reduce future husbands from being unfaithful is to groom male children for marriage and prepare them as we prepare the women for marriage. 

Remember a spouse who has Empathy will not cheat, mother, or girlfriend, you can't change your man's cheating behavior unless he wants to change but you can help the lady who will marry your son by teaching your male children how they should treat their wife.

As written by sele